It's time to reveal some ....

Another boring day here over at the _ _ _ _ _ _ ' residence. My Boss will be gone for the next 3 days as him and his family are up for a series of concert tours in Canada, as well in New Hampshire. And so that means zero work for me for the next couple days! In some way, I still find myself blessed to have such an awesome job like this that I'm pretty sure most people would die for to get this type of gig!

I've been very discreet with my friends when it comes to my work, specifically to the question "who do I work for?" haha oh yes ... everytime people ask me where I work, I just pretty much tell them my generic answer: " Oh I just work for this family of 4 up in Scarsdale..." period. Truth is, I made a vow for this family and did signed some sort of confidetiality agreement. Only a very few people know who I work for. Some I trust so much, others, well... they've kind of leaked the info. Heck not even my Bishop knows who are my employers... It's hard to beleive though. So it's better not to tell, coz I'm a guy who hates / despises big gossips... I just don't like it!

I guess I'd keep myself busy here in this wonderful house. Try to find something that I can do, and even just read some of my boss' wide selection of receipes at the family library. I love this family so much and I have nothing but love and respect for them. They treat me as if I'm a part of the family. Recently, my family moved from the gettoish city of Waterbury, CT to the Beautiful and Poshy Scarsdale, NY. I love this place so much, hoping that someday, I'd live here with my own family! As per my Boss would say: "To have striven, to have made the effort, to have been true to certain ideals - this alone is worth the struggle." He's worked his butt off through the years to reach to this point, from just a simple Farm Guy to an Iconic Country Legend. His passion in music is what made this Guy put himself on the map. I myself, admire that. I know I'll reach my goals and ambitions in life in time. As long as that "burning passion" is there.

LIES LIES LIES and effffffing LIES !!!!

I hate being lied ON !!!!

Why do people Freakin LIE? I don't get it sometimes. I really despise people who lie because not only it hurts your feelings, but It also degrades that trust you've built within that specific person! I'm not going into further details about this experience I've had. Instead, I decided to research (out of my bored mind, for the moment) as to why people LIE ... oh, and just for the record; I've already forgiven this certain individual. To tell the truth I was upset for about a little 15 seconds, but come to think of it, I was like... "you know what, oh the heck! just move on..." I'm just too smart enough to handle these types of scenarios I guess. I've been lied on a couple times before and and I know how it feels to be lied on, it gave my pain, sufferings, frutrations, and most of all, Heartaches; which I hope and pray, won't experience it again when the time comes...

As I researched as to why people lie, here's what I found out from another site:

"It's tied in with self-esteem," says University of Massachusetts psychologist Robert Feldman. "We find that as soon as people feel that their self-esteem is threatened, they immediately begin to lie at higher levels."

Not all lies are harmful. In fact, sometimes lying is the best approach for protecting privacy and ourselves and others from malice, some researchers say. Some deception, such as boasting and lies in the name of tact and politeness, can be classified as less than serious. But bald-faced lies (whether they involve leaving out the truth or putting in something false), are harmful, as they corrode trust and intimacy—the glue of society.

So that said, what is YOUR take about this? And please, tell me the TRUTH, and nothing but the TRUTH!!! Ugh!!!!

(okay ciao now.) =)